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The Bricklayer


Slow down, you're doing fine, you can't be everything you want to be, before your time... -Vienna, The Stranger: Billy Joel. (Any Pronouns)

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Mar
3rd
2021

Coming out · 9:00pm Mar 3rd, 2021

Okay, I can't hide myself anymore. Earlier, I saw a... post if you can even call it that left me shaking with rage for a good few minutes and I apologize if my spelling isn't great right now. I'm still not in the best f moods. I refuse to let this bastard say I don't exist...

What do I mean by that? Well, just a few weeks ago I figured out my lavel.

I am... Demi, as in a male but not completely. I am Non Binary, and I am proud of it. I am a Demi Pansexual person on the Aro spectrum. Ironically, I owe said post a thank you as it was the final push I needed to say I exist.

I will be watching the comments on this and I will know who will support me when the chips are down and who won't. Hateful comments will be deleted and their owners blocked forever. Making that clear.

I will however be taking questions and answering what I am to the best of my ability.

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Comments ( 40 )

You don't have to be afraid of being yourself. That's who you are, and if someone can't accept it it's their problem. No one has the right to tell you what exists and what doesn't. No one can tell you who you are. You know you, f the haters and wave your flag high.

*Waves Bisexual flag* I stand with you

Congrats to you, Brick. :pinkiesmile:

I said it already, but you're my friend, and I'll support you.

Congrats Brick, I'm glad you did this, as GivingSpider said, just be you.

Congratulations, we're so very proud of you.

Don't know if you've heard of it, but there's a page on Facebook called Insufferably Intolerant Science Nerd that's (despite it's name) all about raising awareness and support for people who identify as Non-Binary, Gender-Fluid, Trans, you name it. Their Discord also has a dedicated support section.

Be who you are, Bricklayer. A wise man once noted that "the people who do mind don't matter, and the people who don't mind do matter."

If this fandom stands for anything, it's loving and accepting others, no matter who they are. In the words of O'Donnell and Campbell;

Happy or Sad we'll Stick by your side-
That's what friends are for.

You do you man. I don't care if your Demi or not. Just know that there are people who got your back.

I dont even understand what a demi pansexual is. But if your happy thats all that counts.

Grats Brick! Glad you're comfortable with coming out, not like it'll change who you are! 👍

I was gonna leave a longer comment à la Melody Song's, but in all honesty, there's not much for me to add. You figured something out about yourself, and you've mustered the courage to be open about that realization. Good on ya, mate!
:twilightsmile:

congrats on coming out my friend:rainbowkiss::raritywink:

We always have your back, Brick. Be it us here on FimFiction or on Discord, we'll always be by your side.

Cause that is what friends are truly for. And if someone wants to be an ass about it, that's their problem.

I am happy that you felt comfortable in coming out. We are all hear for you.

I, for one, approve of this status update, Brick

Good for you... Sir? (Not a 100% sure what to call you.) Finding acceptance with yourself is hard to achieve. Glad you could do it. Long as you’re happy, we’ll support you all the way.

You be you bruddah, you can help show us De Wae.

[No, I'm not ashamed of that old meme but srsly, proud you've gone public, man, and you got my support one way or another.]

Gotcha back, brother.

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Oh, I still accept pronouns like 'sir', it's just I'd also like some gender neutral ones as well.

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Yeah, this... this normally would take a lot more nerve than I normally possess but I was so pissed I had to do something. Stand up and say 'yes I support you' to my peeps and that I was one of them.

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....okay, normally I'd be twitching at such a dead meme but it broke the tension and it's you Corona so I'm not that annoyed.

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Thank you, that means a lot. Like, I am not a brave person by nature and this took a lot of courage that I normally don't have in spares.

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Thanks sis, I love you too.

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So uh, rejoice at my coming out I guess?

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Well, I'm proud of you for revealing this, and I'm with you, you have the right to be free to be who you are. You're not alone

Congratulations, Brick! And remember, we like and enjoy your company because of the wonderful person you are.:twilightsmile:

I didn't speak earlier (frankly from dealing with shit of my own) but congrats on comin' out bud. We're proud of ya.

Like everyone else has said, just be proud of who you are. We all still stand. :pinkiesmile:

It must’ve took a lot of courage for you to come out like this, and I respect that, I don’t judge people by their sexuality and I hate those who do, so you have my support :twilightsmile:

The sexual bit is still confusing to me, but you do you mate! All the power to you and such! :twilightsmile:

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Well, you know what Bisexual means right? Well, Pansexual is different. Instead of body type, I'm more interested in personality which let's be honest is more important than looks any day.

You Have my Support
My Friend.

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I agree whole heartedly, just can't see myself with a dude lest a gal is involved too. One of my few goals in life is to have a few children. It is among the few things I desire that are not trivial.

Thanks for clearing it up Brick!

It's a bit late and everyone's already commented, but still...

Congratulations.

Good for you, buddy

Welcome to the LGBTQIA community, my friend.

Bully for you even though I have not a single clue where Demi falls I don't really need to know to support you.

P.S.: Don't be so hard on yourself your braver then you think I mean you have been subconsciously (or on purpose who knows) hinting at it for years now with your profile pic having basically the same color scheme as the flag bravo mate, bravo.

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https://gender.wikia.org/wiki/Demiboy

A demiboy (also called a demiguy, demiman or demimale person) is a gender identity describing someone who partially, but not wholly, identifies as a man, boy or otherwise masculine, regardless of their assigned gender at birth. They may or may not identify as another gender in addition to feeling partially a boy or man.

Demiboy can be used to describe someone assigned male at birth who feels barely connected or disconnected to that identification, but who usually does not experience a significant enough dissociation to create real physical discomfort or dysphoria.

Also, maybe I have been subconsciously, I didn't just work it out for myself until last month.

Neat! :yay:

I am SO not aro. I'm like, wayro. :derpytongue2:

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Aaaaaay, Aro Rights!

Me, I'm Nebularomantic. No, that doesn't mean I want to date clouds of space gas, it's just down to me being on the spectrum it's sometimes... difficult to tell what's platonic and what's not affection wise.
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